Parvin Baharloo, Board Member and Human Extraordinaire

DSCF5814Our wonderful Board Member, volunteer, and extraordinary woman died on Saturday June 26th, 2016 from brain cancer. She will be so missed. She was a wonderful member of our Keepers Team over the past few years; volunteering on work parties (she is shown above on the right), docent camp outs and on our KOPL Board. Her husband, Jack Pedigo, who is also a Board member, has written a biography of the life of our fascinating Parvin. Here it is for all to read:

Khanoomeh (Ms.) PARVIN BAHARLOO
Who was this person, Parvin? As her life’s partner and confidant for over 16 years perhaps I can shed some light. We need to remember that Parvin was totally open with her ideas and actually relished confrontation. We two, amazingly, shared many experiences and ideas and often fed off of one another in a way I doubt many couples do.
Firstly, she was born in Abadan, Iran which was once the site of the world’s largest oil refinery. Her family, including four brothers and herself, were lower middle class and her mother, although being illiterate, fostered education and critical thinking. The family was Moslem but not strong in their faith and her mother always supported Parvin’s constant questioning especially of religion. She told countless stories of being sent home from school with notes from teachers complaining of Parvin’s lack of “respect”. In one case a teacher showed up at their door with his complaints with Parvin cowering behind it. The mother said she would take care of it and after the teacher left the mother told Parvin to go out and play. Parvin’s grandmother was devout & always preached to the kids. Her mother constantly intervened, behind the scenes. At one instance when Parvin was visiting some friends who were Sunnis, her grandmother told her be sure not to eat their bread. On the way out the door her mother told her they get their bread from the same bakery as we do. From the very beginning Parvin thought religion was nonsense and became a life-long atheist. She quickly realized that life was here and now and there was no afterlife. She had a wonderful childhood and her brothers treated her with awe. To them she was a Persian Princess. In summers the family would escape the heat and retreat to an extended family home in the mountains. There life was primitive with no running water or electricity and she loved it. Again, story after story about life with the primitive relatives in the mountains carrying buckets of water on their heads and playing in the woods. It was one big, long campout.
When she was 17 she became engaged to an older man. She quickly realized this was a mistake and tried to get out of it. Unfortunately, the culture was too strong and to do so would bring shame to the family so she was forced to marry. In the end this proved beneficial as were she to stay in Iran she later realized that with her mouth she would have ended up in jail or dead. Two children Melody and Sammy were soon born. The family were able to get student visas to attend school in the U.S. and they moved to Texas. There is a large contingency of Iranians in Dallas. When she arrived in the U.S. she spoke not a word of English but after 5 years she received a university degree in early childhood education and had a third son, Scott. The marriage was very difficult and lasted 25 years. When the last child was almost grown she separated and later divorced her husband, Nick. In 1979 the revolution hit Iran and the family sought citizenship in the U.S. Parvin did most of the work and it was arduous and expensive. At one point the paperwork was misplaced and they had to start over again. Finally, one by one the family got their citizenship. She went through all this because she realized the importance of doing some things the right and legal way.
Parvin worked her way up the education ladder and by 1999 she was the director of a private school. Her one basic philosophy in education is discipline first then love mixed with a strong sense of fairness. Her youngest son received his Eagle award due to a lot of coaxing from his mother. He later told her he was gay which didn’t bother her at all and, in fact, she was proud of him when he returned his Eagle award back to the BS. He and his partner now work in the computer field and has traveled the world for his job. Her other son received a full scholarship for undergraduate school and is now a Pulmonologist in VA. His wife is also a doctor and they have 3 kids. Her daughter received her Masters from Baylor in programing and is a manager for KPMG in Dallas. My brother-in-law, also Iranian and also from Abadan had his child in Parvin’s school and he and Parvin became good friends. He called me and told me to call this woman. We spent two months on the phone before meeting. When we did it was not love at first site but rather started as a relationship based on commonalities. She loved Seattle from the first visit and in 2000 we were married in a small town in Texas. Coming to Seattle empowered her and she quickly obtained her Wash. teaching certificate and ended up working for several Seattle elementary schools the last one being Beacon Hill International School. Because of her strong sense of activism she always ended up on several school committees and in 2006 received her Master’s degree in leadership (principal) from the UW. She stayed active with Beacon Hill School and often subbed there. One principal begged her to stay a school year. He was in awe of her skills and even offered to find her a place to stay. She turned him down. The following year this principal was awarded principal of the year for the state of Washington!
One example of her total lack of shyness (she often said she didn’t know what the word meant) and fun loving character: We recently received a card from a man who said he still remembered the ping-pong event. In 2006 Parvin was enrolled in the master’s leadership program with the Univ. of Wa. The first week was held in the Pack Forest as a way of getting to know everyone. After dinner, several started playing ping-pong Parvin being one. She quickly sized up her opponent and at one point his ball hit her in the eye. She pretended it didn’t bother her. The next morning she put some dark rouge around the eye and showed up for the day’s session. Everyone saw her and the man who hit her was nervous. Each was asked to give their opinion of the group. Parvin got up on a table and went on and on how she had been injured. She saw the man bow his head and then she wiped the rouge away and said gotcha. There was a moment of silence then laughter and from then on people knew who they were dealing with. Obviously the poor victim has still not forgotten the incident ten years later.
After coming to Seattle she joined the Mountaineers club. In 2001 we started working a vacation week on a rails to trails project at Stevens Pass called the Iron Goat Trail. In 2002 PBS made a documentary film of the project and, not being camera shy, Parvin relished following the director, a John Degraff, to get herself in the film and she is shown in several scenes. We worked the trail for 7 years and did a stint in 2014 and had planned another work party this year. She is shown on a large photograph located at the Skykomish trailhead. When doing trail work Parvin morphed into a different person; trick playing, rule breaking and fun loving became her persona. She was always breaking rules and when caught managed to talk her way out. One example was the wearing of the mandatory hard hat. Workers had yellow hats and she was constantly removing hers. One year the ranger put her in charge of a group and gave her a white leadership hat. This was somewhat successful but in the end the rangers stopped reminding her. Being a railroad bed with a slight grade the trail was ADA compliant. This meant a five foot trail width. Parvin is 5’0” tall and often she would lay across the trail to get the proper width. Eventually, someone took a stick and cut it at Parvin’s height and it became the Parvin stick. The trail was worked with members from American Hiking Society, who still come to Lopez each year to work various trails. We have met and befriended people from all over the country and even different parts of the world. A plethora of stories came from our times on the Iron Goat. Also in 2002 we met Linda Hudson and they became close friends Linda was and only child and Parvin only had brothers so the two of them adopted each other as sisters. In 2005 the Hudsons moved to Lopez and we started to visit them on the island. Parvin was attracted to the sense of community and in 2008 we bought property and moved here in 2011.
Parvin became involved with the Lopez community before even moving here. She applied for and was offered the principal job at the local school. She eventually declined because she realized it was too political; she said she wanted to play games with kids not adults. She opened a food stand at the farmers market selling Falafel, rice cookies, tabbouleh salad and baklava. She catered several occasions and even created a web-site, tasteofpersialopez.com. She made meals for people who were ailing. She used her culinary skills to earn money for various fundraisers. DVSAS became one of her projects and this was the first board she has ever joined. Soon came the Prevention Coalition, board of KOPL (Patos Light) in which she took over the role of docent trainer this year. One early organization near to her heart is SERVAS Int’l. This is an organization dedicated to the promotion of peace through cultural exchange. We are hosts but have been travelers and gone to several European countries. Parvin quickly became the area (WA) coordinator and this year took on the role as regional coordinator. US SERVAS is based in Arcata CA. Several years ago she coordinated an Int’l conference at Ft. Worden and later organized a Canadian/US annual potluck in Bellingham. As the only hosts in the San Juans we have hosted visitors from all over the world and the U.S.
Another of her favorite things was going to the Opera. After the first one she couldn’t get enough. She would go, usually with a friend, and get tickets for the standing room. She would scan the seating and after the break find a seat. Her friend would feel nervous but she said just let me do the talking. She always got good seats and no one ever questioned her.
One aspect of Khanoomeh  Baharloo that some may know is that she is controversial and outspoken. Her size, body language and tact lets her say and do things that would cause trouble for most others. Emotion almost always takes a backseat to reason when dealing with an issue. Her awareness, education and experiences have given her an insight most of us could only imagine. Some 30 years ago she became vegetarian and never looked back. After coming to “liberal” Seattle she learned other aspects of the lifestyle and became a staunch advocate. She helped many others learn that a lack of meat did not mean a lack of taste or enjoyment of food. Another area, that most have missed, is her conviction of our place in the natural world. Not just working with nature but advocating for its importance and demonstrating our place within it. In her first grade classroom she labeled all the wastebaskets as landfill. At the start of the school year she would take the boys and girls into the bathroom and show them how to practice conservation of water and paper towels. She made sure to place fresh flowers on each table in the classroom. A number of years ago she came up with a question for her 2nd graders: “Which is more important, dirt or people?” From this simple questions we have extended the idea to areas as government “which is more important people or the system they live under (for democratic societies)? Not having a religion she was unable to understand its reach. However, lately she became aware of and involved with such groups as the Humanists and Brights (she helped translate a piece into Farsi for this int’l, online group). This has helped her better understand the reach of religion into society and become more of an advocate for the freedom for all to privately believe in what they wanted without having other beliefs forced on them. Even though she often substituted for the local school early this year she sent in her notice she would no longer do so. At heart of her decision was the emphasis on children being made to recite the pledge of allegiance. It has been decided by the Supreme Court that the inclusion of “under God” has made the pledge religious in nature and that no person could be forced to recite it. She also saw “justice for all” as being false.
In the end Parvin was an active board member of DVSAS and Prevention Coalition and took charge of this year’s Trashion-Fashion show. She was on the board of Keepers of Patos Light and took on the task of docent coordinator. For the past 7 years she was the area coordinator for a peace through travel organization SERVAS Int’l. and this year agreed to be the regional
coordinator. As hosts we received many travelers from around the world. They felt they were getting two cultures, Persia and the U.S. in one. Parvin’s hospitality became known and we received travelers for a second time. She cooked for many people and maintained a web-site tasteofpersialopez.com. She was also in the mentor program and spent many hours working in our local labyrinth. The island will miss her energy, charm and talent.
Jack Pedigo

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Come Help Us to Celebrate Lighthouse’s 123rd Birthday!!!!

b Our little lighthouse will turning 123 years old this summer. Help us to celebrate!  On Sunday August 21st, we will celebrate this special birthday with cake and refreshments to be served at the lighthouse. Bring your fond memories to share.

Keepers of the Patos Light will be hiring a charter boat from Outer Island Expeditions,a round trip leaving from Brandt’s Landing on August 21st. Time and cost TBA. To be put on our interest list, please email: patoslightkeepers@hotmail.com

Patos Lighthouse to be Closed for Upkeep and Repairs

Notice: Patos Lighthouse will be closed due to upkeep and repairs from May 15th to July 1st. Here is the information from BLM’s Nick Teague:

Here is some of the work that we are planning to have accomplished on Patos this spring – May 17th thru probably July. (this is the length of the Contract)
There will be a 30′ foot working area established around the lighthouse

Lexan Window Covers: cleaning
LEAD BASED PAINT REMOVAL AND DISPOSAL:
STAINLESS STEEL HOLLOW METAL DOORS AND FRAMES: replacementPatos08 096
PAINTING:

This work environment will be very similar to the Patos Island Stabilization project in 2008.

Once we have completed this work the Lighthouse will look even better than before smile emoticon

We will still have our monthly Patos Island Work Parties.

For more information, go to: patoslightkeepers@hotmail.com

Docent Slots Are Filling Fast!!!!

Our upcoming spring/summer/fall docent stay slots are filling fast. It looks like August is already fully booked. July and September still have spaces, but not for very long! Docent stays can be anything from a weekend to a week+ and we provide the training.Washington State Park boats provide transportation to the island for you docent shift.

As a docent team, you will open the lighthouse and greet visitors. Visitors always have questions so we provide you with info sheets on any and all likely questions: typical question include…”How old is the lighthouse?” (it was built in 1893) and “Where did the families live?” (the families lived in a separate house….a beautiful Victorian duplex which was destroyed by the Coast Guard in 1958…BooHoo)

Docent fun does not end with the closing of the lighthouse doors…docents get to enjoy what are often the most beautiful sunset views in the San Juans.

 

To find out more: email…patoslightkeepers@hotmail.com

 

 

 

Incredible sunsets are common

Incredible sunsets are common

 

 

 

 

Spring/Summer Volunteer Opportunities on Patos Island

The early birds get the places on the boat!

KOPL sponsored Work parties will start in April, with a work party scheduled to follow each month through September.

Weekend(+)Docent Stays will start Memorial Day weekend through mid/late September, Book now and get your first choice of time slots.

Both opportunities include transportation to and from Patos Island, courtesy of Washington State Parks.

For complete details, email: patoslightkeepers@hotmail.com

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After Renovations

Volunteers at the Lighthouse

On our way to Patos Island!

On our way to Patos Island!

 

Volunteers breaking for lunch at the Lighthouse

Volunteers breaking for lunch at the Lighthouse

Patos Island in the News!

http://www.islandsweekly.com/news/337132171.html

 

Lopez Youth hard at work all summer

 LICC with SJICC at Patos Island Lighthouse - Contributed photo

LICC with SJICC at Patos Island Lighthouse

— image credit: Contributed photo

by Emmett J. Lawrence

The Lopez Island Conservation Corps had another successful summer program in 2015. Buoyed by a strong turnout of motivated youth, the crew exceeded expectations. In total, there was a crew of seven this season Jana Gruenwald, Alyssa Hamlin, Claire Roberson, Marvin Snapp, Tyler Sovelove and Galen Westervelt. With a balance of different personalities, genders and skills the crew grew into a great team as the summer progressed. It was the first season for all of the crew members, as well as crew leader Emmett Lawrence, so there was a natural learning curve, but after a couple weeks of working together things really started jelling. The crew worked in six different locations throughout San Juan County, ranging from Watmough Bay and Iceberg Point, to Patos Island and Moran State Park. In total, they served nearly 920 hours, cumulatively, in public recreation areas this summer. In 2015, the LICC improved close to 8,000 feet of trails, filled 25 fifteen-gallon trash bags with the flower buds of invasive thistles, and constructed a variety of different trail structures within SJC. Another valuable part of the summer schedule was the environmental education curriculum. This portion of the program relied on the knowledge, skills, and generosity of local community members who came out to share with the crew. They learned about archaeology and oral history of native people, local ecosystems, invasive species, poetry and art in nature, leave no trace outdoor ethics, and basic First aid and CPR. There was also a series of visits to farms, where the crew learned about the processes of making milk, bee keeping, compost production, and seed saving. The crew wishes to extend its thanks to the LICC board members, the Bureau of Land Management, and all the community members who worked with them.

September 15th Work Party Cancelled….

Parks is having issues again with their boats and I cannot in good conscience keep you good volunteers hanging. Suzanna, please notify your friend with my apologies.

If the work party is rescheduled, you all will be the first to know.

I want to thank you for your patience and Marvin & Karan, I am so sorry to bring you this news.

If we do not reschedule, I hope you (all of you) can join us next year for a trip to polish our little gem of an island.

Tom, just rest up and have a great trip.

Kind regards and Happy Sails,

Sandy

Volunteers, Thanks for all your great work this year in “polishing” our little island. Soon we will tightly locking up our lighthouse for the winter to come. Who knows what storms and high waves she will see until we visit her again?

Gracias, Merci, Thank-you!  Linda, President, KOPL

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Reports From A Small Island! Birthday Party a Grand Success!

Here are emails from our honored guests at the Birthday Party: Denise Wilk, Cake Maker Supreme and “Patos” Bill LaVergne, US Coast Guard, Patos Island, 1952-1954
Hi Denise and Patos Friends.
My dear Denise…….
What a great friend you are to me….What a great day we had due to you and what a wonderful birthday carrot cake you made…..Every one loved it ….and it really made my day special….Sorry not all of you made it out for the party….You really missed having some of Denis’s great cake…And I missed seeing and visiting with you…..
All of you worked so hard getting me to and from the lighthouse in the wheelchair…..Oh How Thankful am I for that….Jon( ham operator) who came to help was a great one also.
My friend Joe and I got back to Tacoma at 9PM. The day started at 5AM so sleep came early….
My friend Joe gave a $100.00 gift to the lighthouse fund I hear….Thank you Joe. If it were not for him I would never get up from Tacoma for the party. I hope we send him a thank you note.
Well Denise my friend again thank you from the bottom of my heart for a great party day….
” Thanks for the MEMORIES”
Patos Bill
On Mon, Aug 17, 2015 at 8:54 AM, Denise Wilk <eclipse@orcasonline.com> wrote:

Dear Keepers of the Patos Light and island care takers,
Thank you all for the logistic coordination on our behalf. The group was able to give $80 to parks. Patos Bill was able to see his beloved Island and Lighthouse once again. An annual bucket list for sure.
We did have our ham operators and some boaters come out for celebration and cake time. It was low key and we really missed all of you. Erin and Lisa’s Husband did a fly over and we tried to make the Patos by using our hands and legs. That must look funny. Hope to get a photo. Thank you again for making it all happen.
I put the chair back in the sign spot around the corner. It was a perfect day and we did get a bit of a workout getting up there. Thank goodness for “Jean” the Ham man and P.Bills friend Joe from Los Angeles, for helping us get Bill up the hill.
I hope next year we can all be together again. The island looks so pristine and organized.We did have a few honor sales from the store.  Lisa and her Dad, did grab the totes for Parvin. All is well. I did have cakes galore, so I will take some into work today. Take care and thanks again, Sincerely, Denise Wilk

This wonderful picture was taken in a flyover by Tom DiGiorgio, by Erin Corra

This wonderful picture was taken in a flyover by Tom DiGiorgio, by Erin Corra